DEFEET

Today was going to be take your son to work day.  Not nationally sanctioned or anything. But with our mangled schedule of daytime parent-swapping I thought I could multi-task and do my day job with Henry attached to me… If only we could get out the door.

Baby shoes are pointless.  There are some great and adorable shoe-like coverings for babies. My good friend Tim Blane got us some soft converse all-stars that were awesome!  Not really shoes, but looked like shoes.  Perfect! 

A company in Vermont called Zutano makes these wraparound booties that don’t fall off.  We received them as hammy-downs and are now ordering our third pair.  Let me repeat, they don’t fall off!  Unfortunately, the next size (long overdue) has not arrived yet.

Honestly, in good weather, Henry is happy to be barefoot and I like to oblige him when roaming our quiet neighborhood of Greenpoint, but something about the subway and Manhattan made me pull some actual baby shoes that we had hastily purchased out for a trial.

20 minutes of trying to put them on left us both cranky. When they finally stayed put, Henry proceeded to be taking steps as if he was on the moon.  Hilarious and ridiculous.  Seconds later he had pushed them off his feet and he was standing and walking around the coffee table like a normal earthbound baby.  We both breathed a little easier.

It is now get other stuff done day.  Officially!

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Funny and sad

A pedestrian was being beraded by a homeless man and as I caught eyes with the walker-by we had to smile to each other.
The randomness of this event was surprising to the point o humor, and then you start to think about the life that is damned by choices or in-balance.
I’m thinking its ok to share the humor of the moment so
long as we share the pain for a moment as well.

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My Hero!

We have a wonderful 24 hour bodega on the corner of Green and Manhattan called A&J.  They are very sweet, stock really quality items/produce and let me take my dog into the store.

They are not cheap, but what I saw yesterday will trump that fact for all time.

I walked in to find one of their workers on the sidewalk with a length of twine leaning over the subway grate.  A panicked jogger girl looked on.  Pulling up on the twine he called for chop sticks.  He proceeded to chopstick grab a set of keys from depths of hell that is the area below the grate and hand them to the young lady who’s day was saved.

The twine had a rock tied to the end with the sticky side of masking tape facing out.  The weight of the rock helped the tape afix itself to the keys.  Awesome feat of engineering and good-heartedness.

What I loved more than the look of gratitude on the key-losing-jogger-girl’s face was the look of pride and satisfaction from the good-deed-doer.  It made me feel good.

Now I am going to attach a rock and twine to this broken hard drive and twirl it against a wall!  Save my hard drive A&J

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Time Machine, Swallow the Sun, Choir

Tonight, I’m heading into the studio with the Matts (Aronoff and Bogdanow), Lee Pardini (of Mia Dyson keys/bass recording genius) and my esteemed producer Gerald Hammill.

It took a lot of kitten juggling to make this happen and these guys have proven their patience with me.  Sometimes, it seems like the world conspires for or against us, but its important to remember we can make something happen anyway.

Excited to rock into the wee hours.

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Last night was awesome

Thanks to all the supportive fans, friends and newcomers that came out last night.  There is a new sound brewing and its been an exciting evolution over the course of the April shows.

Last night featured two brand new songs that I hope fit in somewhere with my early 90’s tinted vision which is somehow blending STP with Boys to Men and Mariah Carey.  I’m kidding about those reference points, but something about that time seems to be coming through.

Excited!

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The long version of my text message- Rockwood Wednesdays at 10!

If you received a message from me today or in the past or will receive one in the future that says I have a show the next two Wednesdays at Rockwood at 10pm, this is what I really wish I could say to you.

There are few things in life that feel better than being on stage while a full room of people are digging your music.  In a perfect world the people that came out wouldn’t need a reminder or invitation, but would seek it out themselves.  They would be music fans that really just want to be there rocking out.  However, the road to making the world perfect starts with friends and supporters filling a room, lending a hand, bringing a friend, making a new connection.  This goes for musicians, restauranteurs, entrepreneurs, charities and all things that start from the ground up.  This is my justification/rationalization for what could appear to be nagging.

What I really wish I was writing/texting/messaging you about was setting up a time for coffee/tea/wine/beer/yoga/taking-a-walk/ or holding my son on your lap while I take a picture of him meeting the people that are important in my life.  What is equally fulfilling (but perhaps less sweaty) is finding out all the exciting things you are doing.  So many of my friends are starting new businesses, making important political and social advances, saving peoples lives, raising incredible children and taking on adventures that make me a little bit envious.  

Even if you can’t make it out the next two weeks, feel free to reply with your availability for any of the above adventures!

Reluctantly marketing!

Pat

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Rockwood residency on Wednesday!

Here is the baseball bat or its intellectual equivalent of a blog hitting you over the head. Yes im playing on Wednesday night at 10.

Tomorrow, what makes me happy, vs what I truly want.

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Me, Me Me Day 2

The campaign is heating up.  Do you have your tickets to this Wednesday’s show? What about the next Wednesday’s show?  Well there are no tickets, but there are also no limits to what you can tip the band and its tax deductible too!  That’s also a lie.

Marketing like this is obnoxious.  There are some alternatives, but as I think about them, I wonder about my capacity for altruism.  Here’s a technique that was recommended during a publicity campaign we did.  In the process of tweeting every day (already failed that) rather than call attention to yourself… herald another’s work.  Hand out Kudos like there is an expiration date on the wrapper.  Talk about friends. Be generous. Then every so often drop a me bomb. Like this.

Congrats to my friends Brian and Laura on their new baby boy, Carl!

A big super thank you to Tony and Barbara Piccirillo (Lisa’s awesome parents) for the singing turtle.  Henry almost likes it as much as Ozzy (our dog.)

@miadyson is coming back to the east coast next month.  You are missing out if you don’t know her music.  Her album drops on the white house lawn into a picnic of apple pie and (unfortunately) a pile of firearms on April 23.

Congrats to the Haslegrave Brothers, who are the guys that have perfected the old school look that Brooklyn is loving on opening their first restaurant in the old Greenpoint Coffee House space on my corner.  Looking forward to Alameda.

Come see me play the last two Wednesday of April at Rockwood Music Hall.  10 pm sharp.

Everything felt so good and then I had to ruin it by talking about myself.  I love everything about touting others, but I hate bringing it back to me.  But then again this is the Me Me Me campaign, so I’ll do what I have to do.

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The Me, Me, Me Campaign Day 1

In order to kick up the attendance at my Wednesday night April Residency at Rockwood Music Hall, I am going to spur my self back to blogging every day.  Actually, I love blogging every day and I haven’t been doing it because life has been soooo crazy.  That is bullshit.  Every person in this world has an equally crazy life relative to their chosen workload or self-imposed drama. Some people in this world have horrible things happen to them and they soldier on and over-achieve despite.  I have lived a charmed life, so I can’t make excuses.

For those of us that want to change the world or make creative alternative lifestyles we have chosen that goal as our reward.  The fact that life never slows down is the cost.  I have not been blogging/promoting/practicing because I choose to spend my time doing something else.  I chose to work in the yard, watch basketball, start a new business venture, dip my toe in the water of real estate, look at craigslist, be hungover (product of watching basketball.)

I don’t like promoting, but I could have nixed one of those choices and guilted a handful of people out to the show by text, or more cheerfully written an inspired blog or finished a demo for trying out something new next weeks show.

Campaign Day 1 is about taking responsibility

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Horrible/Wonderful Show

Even before I received an email from the club regarding the horrendous attendance to my show last night, I was feeling the sting.  Week two of the April residency was part disappointment and part beautiful, passionate and inspired performing.  I sang my heart out, I truly did.  Matt Aronoff, fresh from a gig next door was our musical feature of the night and deserved a spotlight.  When Matt Bogdanow wasn’t kicking ass on drums, he was filling my tuning voids with horrible/wonderful jokes.  I am so grateful for the Matts for being great friends and great players.  I am lucky to know them both.

I am not completely upset when the room isn’t full.  You gotta get up and play the music, and if the music can’t get you through the night…work on your tunes or join a cover band. I love my music.  There, I said it.  

However, in this day and age, I do have to take responsibility for an empty room, even when its storming outside.

I do not play music at a level where promoters are inviting me to play a show and they make sure people show up.  No matter what you think of the deal… in exchange for a good sounding room to play my music (tips subsidize the band), I have to fill that room with people to buy drinks.  That is my job.  That is the business plan of the live/free New York Music scene.

I have been lucky up until this point to probably get more than I give on the promotion level, but with two more weeks to go, I have to honor my contract and see if I can get some butts in the seats.  I really want to take an approach to promotion that doesn’t have me asking people to come out, but I will have to save new less-selfish techniques for future shows.

In the meantime, my least favorite part of the music industry will be spilling out of me.  Please don’t be annoyed, but its time for Plan Me, Me, Me.

Texts, tweets, bribery, guilt ridden emails and back to daily blogging (I do like that part).

Forgive me internet.

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